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     what to write about this time? I've come to the conclusion that this world is full of idiots. i saw this first hand today. someone who i believe to be verbally abusive and controlling and shows all the signs of doing such cemented it in stone for me today without realizing it. it's amazing how quickly the abuser turns the entire situation into the abused fault. even to go as far as saying the abused knows its 100% there fault. 
     OK if any of you have read the first post on here see if this rings a bell. a woman is made to stay at home out away from anything resembling a town. she has no car. she has no drivers licence. her only close friends are her husbands friends and family. i have seen him call her lazy and can only speculate what else he says to her. when he finds out she has been talking to someone else on the Internet  he takes away her laptop and cell phone. brings it back to her a week later and "allows" her to speak to this person so he wont show up to check and make sure she is OK. she had him to leave but conveniently after he brought her things back couldn't stay where he had been any longer but has no where else to stay and has once again deprived her of the only means she has to talk to anyone. hmmmm? it seems to be a classic text book case to me.

     this is the woman that gave him the greatest gift a woman can, two children. she sacrificed her health and body for him. that alone should give him the reason to worship her and do everything , everything in his power to please her and keep her happy. this doesn't mean to buy her things. any idiot can go out and buy a woman things. no i mean make her your life. you have to do things for her not have her doing everything for you. not just for show , you must want to do those things. don't use her like a piece of property that you quickly fuck when you are horny. wait til she wants it and take your time and do all the things she enjoys. two or three times if she wants to. in ancient times goddesses were worshiped  isn't it about time we started to treat them the way they deserve to be treated. it's no wonder 2 out of 3 marriages fail now days. if you truly and everlastingly love the woman you are with then you would already want to and do these things for her it's that simple. and this idiot , this abuser of the woman he claims to love just can't and probably won't get it. it's no wonder she's looking else where for true love and she found it but hopefully is strong enough to not let it slip away...I'll keep you posted on that one...