W O W !

     just a simple question real quick. if your marriage was in the crapper and you really truly wanted it to work, would you not spend every waking second of the day trying to figure out all the things you have been doing wrong and proceed to become a better man than you have been? 
     some people i guess will never change no matter how much they promise they will. why waste your time posting ignorant (but funny i have to say) comments on facebook. why not take that time to talk to your wife. write her a love letter. cook for her. anything but try and incite a response from the guy she has been talking to. all that does is prove the type of person you really are and that's just sad. whats even more pathetic is that he is throwing those remarks at an entire state not just at the person he is intending it to be towards.
     this just makes me feel better because if you are wasting your time on me then that means you are still having problems "fixing" your marriage. i told myself not to stoop to that level but now that i see how much problems you really have i can't help myself
     how can you tell when a verbally, mentally abusive  and controlling husband realizes how much of an idiot he has been?
     when he loses his wife of eleven years to some dude from the Internet she has never even met.
     i will keep my word and no contact with her. through Christmas that is...after that now all bets are off. i was willing to give you a chance but seeing as you would rather spend your time insulting me and my home state instead of on your wife, now i will fight for her love because evidently you wont.