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     you know how thing's look from my point of view? now all i can do is guess but i see things a couple of ways. she had no other option that would allow her to keep her kids so she did what was needed. which was go back to her old life. without me being a part of hers anymore. once isolated under lock and key it was only a matter of time before she completely gave in to him and is now convinced he is going to change this time. she can't go any where else so might as well make the best out of it if you can.
     the other way it might have went is that after she had responsibilities of being a single mom who don't drive and has no money put on her and how hard it was going to be, she started reverting back to the one she has had to completely depend on all these years. the emotional state she was in wanting one thing but being told she needed the other and her being emotionally abused and manipulated beyond what she could mentally handle made her think i was a mistake and not to believe in me. consciously or subconsciously doing things to make me leave her or even hate her so i would walk away and she wouldn't leave me. either way in the end the outcome was the same. she disappeared.
     now the last way i can guess at it is this was nothing more than a game to both of them. maybe that's how they put a spark back in the marriage. maybe they need all the drama in there lives not being happy unless they're at each others throats. this may be the only way to get attention from him and she lied about it all and was still in love with him the whole time. all out comes have the same ending. she gets to go back to her old life leaving me to somehow try to start mine back up again. no matter which is the truth or if I'm totally off and something else happened she has no other options for her but to be stuck there.
     so, for the last six months he's planned and calculated every move he made driving her back to him and after everything he put her through and did against her all the way up til the second week in July, now she's thinking he's going to change. forgetting all the shit she's been through and has every right to absolutely hate him for it he's going to change now. she had a hundred reasons to keep him out of her life and only two to go back to him. they out weigh everything and always will...her kids. I've always told her they come first before anything and to do what ever it takes to keep them.  she did and that's all that matters. she's already starting to forget about me. i don't have that luxury. the last girl to have a piece of my heart was nineteen years ago. i finally got over her leaving me when i met this one and i am ten times more in love with this one. i don't ever see me getting over her. no, I'll be carrying this hurt the rest of my life.